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That we are also appalled, distressed, and alienated at how quickly the child supremacists are willing to throw us under the bus to preserve a large benefit that we do not share; or that our primary human attachments might be to ourselves, or to members of a non-hetero/homonormative social formation, many of them find naive and morally questionable.

Archive 2009-09-01 Tenured Radical 2009

To go a little deeper as to where my snideness may have come from, (I am in therapy after all): the assumption that childless people are always available causes great resentment too, and sometimes infers contempt for those who have not chosen (or, as PlainsFeminist primly corrected me, have had the privilege of not choosing) a hetero- or homonormative family structure.

Just Say No (But Not To Me): Achieving Balance in Your Work Tenured Radical 2009

As one homonormative colleague, en route to baby #1 said to me once with great and sincere curiosity: "What do couples even talk about after ten years if they don't have children?"

Just Say No (But Not To Me): Achieving Balance in Your Work Tenured Radical 2009

That we are also appalled, distressed, and alienated at how quickly the child supremacists are willing to throw us under the bus to preserve a large benefit that we do not share; or that our primary human attachments might be to ourselves, or to members of a non-hetero/homonormative social formation, many of them find naive and morally questionable.

More Annals of the Great Depression: What Divides Us And Why Tenured Radical 2009

I think saying this piece is heteronormative is like saying an article on anal sex is homonormative.

Quick hit: Sex without condoms is the new engagement ring? - Feministing 2008

Straight people are heteronormative, but gay people are homonormative.

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