May I promote to you, missourigal, a word that will amaze and astound all those who hear you use it? It is the uber cool word to be seen uttering. It delights in the definition 'mixed feelings of extreme pleasure and indignant humour'. What a conversation starter! The ecstasy and the agony! And with Schadenfreudgeon Day 2009 coming up soon you should list your copy now, so that you have it ready for use. Ah, schadenfreudgeon, truly a word that came along just when its definition was seeking one. Start your list with schadenfreudgeon today!