What about girls, you ask? Granted, this is mainly about chaps, but then so much of it is personal, and Rupert has more experience of being a gay man than he does of being anything else. And he does go to Hebden Bridge, lesbian capital of Britain, and meets some lovely women. And I learn a new word: tresbian. As in a male-to-female transgender woman who identifies as a lesbian. Rather than French – or Franglais, or even Polari possibly – for very good. Which this is.