transitive verb To move (a small child) up and down on the knees or in the arms in a playful way: "Somebody who was dandled on Queen Victoria's knee must appear an old fogy” (Edward, Duke of Windsor).
To shake or move up and down in the arms or on the knee, as a nurse tosses or trots an infant; amuse by play. Then shall ye … be dandled upon her knees. Isa. lxvi. 12.I have dandled you, and kiss'd you, and play'd with you, A hundred and a hundred times, and dane'd you, And swung you in my bell-ropes. Fletcher, Spanish Curate, ii. 1.Sporting the lion ramp'd, and in his paw Dandled the kid. Milton, P. L., iv. 344.Now, when the winds were gathered home, when the deep was dandling itself back into its summer slumber, … the voice of these tide-breakers was still raised for havoc. R. L. Stevenson, The Merry Men.
Hence To fondle or make much of; treat as a child; pet; amuse. Like English Gallants, that in Youth doo go To visit Rhine, Sein, Ister, Arn, and Po; Where though their Sense be dandled, Dayes and Nights, In sweetest choice of changeable Delights, They never can forget their Mother-Soyl. Sylvester, tr. of Du Bartas's Weeks, i. 5.They have put me in a silk gown and gaudy fool's cap; I am ashamed to be dandled thus. Addison.
To play or trifle with; put off with cajolery or trifling excuses; wheedle; cajole. King Henries ambassadors, … hauing beene dandled by the French during these delusive practises, returned without other fruite of their labours. Speed, Hen. VII., IX. xx. § 28.
It's not long jumps through the black -- that is when he can relax and dandle babies.
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Citizen Of The Galaxy
Their guts will grease the points of our sabers, their heads dandle from our saddle-posts like green gourds!
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Conan The Warlord
The painted vases in the Palace rooms held daffodils and sprays of almond flowers; the young men dressed their hair with violets, and the ladies decked their boy-dolls, which they would dandle till midsummer and then hang on the fruit trees, for they play at sacrifice as at everything else.
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The King Must Die
"You know; an elderly woman's urgent desire for grandchildren to dandle upon her knee, spoil with sweetmeats, and generally corrupt.
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Drums of Autumn
That young man will dandle you on his knee
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A Crown of Swords
Cf. Scotsdandill, go about idly; Scots and English dial. dander, daunder, dauner (see dander), wander about, talk incoherently, etc. Cf. Germantändeln, toy, trifle, play; Middle Dutchdantinnen, trifle (whence prob. F. dandiner, swing, waddle). These appear to be freq. verbs, from a base seen in Middle Dutchdanten, do foolish things, trifle, Middle High Germantant, Germantand (later Danishtant), a trifle, toy, empty prattle. Cf. Old Italiandondolare, dondolare, dandle, play, dandola, dondola, a doll, a kind of ball-play; moderndondolare, swing, toss, loiter, dondolo, a swing, jest, sport; prob. of Teutonic origin.