from The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 5th Edition.

  • intransitive verb To obtain through the use of flattery or guile.
  • intransitive verb To persuade or attempt to persuade by flattery or guile; cajole.
  • intransitive verb To use flattery or cajolery to achieve one's ends.

from The Century Dictionary.

  • noun One who wheedles; a cajoling or coaxing person.
  • noun A piece of cajolery; a flattering or coaxing speech; a hoax.
  • To entice, especially by soft words; gain over by coaxing and flattery; cajole; coax; flatter; hence, to hoax; take in.
  • To gain or procure by flattery or coaxing.
  • To flatter; coax.

from the GNU version of the Collaborative International Dictionary of English.

  • transitive verb To entice by soft words; to cajole; to flatter; to coax.
  • transitive verb To grain, or get away, by flattery.
  • intransitive verb To flatter; to coax; to cajole.

from Wiktionary, Creative Commons Attribution/Share-Alike License.

  • verb To cajole or attempt to persuade by flattery.
  • verb To obtain something by guile or trickery.

from WordNet 3.0 Copyright 2006 by Princeton University. All rights reserved.

  • verb influence or urge by gentle urging, caressing, or flattering


from The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 4th Edition

[Origin unknown.]

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Origin uncertain. Possibly from Old English waedlian ("to beg").


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  • She will connive and she will lie and she will wheedle her way in as far as she can wheedle, further than you can imagine, until — — oh, I don't know — — she has the password to your SL account.

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  • A quick phone call to Robert ensured she would be well guarded, and Brystion managed to wheedle our way out of too many questions.

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  • "There's no surer way to make me want to understand than to tell me I won't. I wheedled him, demanding that he tell me." Little Brother - Cory Doctorow

    July 3, 2008

  • There began a creaky, squeaky, whinny-whining of the wheels as the wagon wheedled along.

    - William Steig, Farmer Palmer's Wagon Ride

    September 29, 2008

  • There's a Wheedle

    On the Needle

    I know just what

    You're thinking

    But if you look up

    Late at night

    You'll se

    His red nose blinking.

    - Steven Cosgrove, 'Wheedle on the Needle'.

    January 21, 2009

  • Citation on poising.

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