from The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 5th Edition.

  • adjective Affectedly and often flirtatiously shy or modest.
  • adjective Characterized by or suggesting such shyness or modesty.
  • adjective Unwilling to make a commitment or divulge information.
  • adjective Tending to avoid people and social situations; reserved.

from The Century Dictionary.

  • Quiet; still.
  • Manifesting modesty; shrinking from familiarity; bashful; shy; retiring.
  • Disposed to repel advances; disdainful.
  • Synonyms Shrinking, distant, bashful, backward, diffident, demure.
  • noun A stroke or noise made to coy or quiet an animal, as a horse; a soothing sound or utterance.
  • noun A decoy. See decoy, n.
  • To quiet; soothe.
  • To caress with the hand; stroke caressingly.
  • To coax; allure; entice; decoy. See decoy, v.
  • To be coy; behave with coyness or bashfulness; shrink from familiarity: with an indefinite it.
  • To make difficulty; be slow or reluctant.
  • noun A cage or pen for lobsters.

from the GNU version of the Collaborative International Dictionary of English.

  • intransitive verb obsolete To behave with reserve or coyness; to shrink from approach or familiarity.
  • intransitive verb obsolete To make difficulty; to be unwilling.
  • transitive verb obsolete To allure; to entice; to decoy.
  • transitive verb To caress with the hand; to stroke.
  • adjective obsolete Quiet; still.
  • adjective Shrinking from approach or familiarity; reserved; bashful; shy; modest; -- usually applied to women, sometimes with an implication of coquetry.
  • adjective Soft; gentle; hesitating.

from Wiktionary, Creative Commons Attribution/Share-Alike License.

  • noun A trap from which waterfowl may be hunted.
  • adjective dated Bashful, shy, retiring.
  • adjective archaic Quiet, reserved, modest.
  • adjective Reluctant to give details about something sensitive; notably prudish.
  • adjective Pretending shyness or modesty, especially in an insincere or flirtatious way.
  • adjective Soft, gentle, hesitating
  • verb transitive (obsolete) To caress, pet; to coax, entice
  • verb transitive (obsolete) To calm or soothe

from WordNet 3.0 Copyright 2006 by Princeton University. All rights reserved.

  • adjective showing marked and often playful or irritating evasiveness or reluctance to make a definite or committing statement
  • adjective modestly or warily rejecting approaches or overtures
  • adjective affectedly modest or shy especially in a playful or provocative way


from The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, 4th Edition

[Middle English, from Old French quei, coi, quiet, still, from Vulgar Latin *quētus, from Latin quiētus, past participle of quiēscere, to rest; see kweiə- in Indo-European roots.]

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Compare decoy.

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From Old French coi, earlier quei ("quiet, still"), from Latin quietus ("resting, at rest")


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